The female analogue of the male latex device is not so famous for a simple reason: no one knows why it was created and where to buy it. How to use a female condom, and why is it needed if the uterine device, oral contraceptives and various kinds of pills have been around for a long time? The barrier method of contraception is popular in third world countries: Africa, Asia and several more. Technically the same as a condom, only much thinner and different in design.
Female condoms - what they are and how to use them
So, the female condom is made of polyurethane and is, so to speak, a “bag” with two rings at the ends. The ring on the closed edge has a smaller diameter and is placed on the cervix. A large ring remains on the external genitalia.
The female condom should be inserted long before expected sexual intercourse (8 hours before). By the way, when using it for the first time, you should take into account that if you are not used to it, this may turn out to be a completely impossible task. Therefore, for the first time you should have enough free time.
Another important point: you do not need to use both female and male condoms during sexual intercourse. The latex will cling to the polyurethane, causing either one or the other to break. And instead of safety, you will get a bunch of problems. To avoid this, simply agree in advance with your partner which of you will use protection.
It is female condoms that are called femidoms, they are reliable and no worse than their male counterparts. Typically, women use it to protect against unwanted pregnancy. Male and female condoms are similar in appearance. It is the female condom that is more elastic, thin, pleasant to the touch, with a lubricated top layer.
Among other things, female condoms can be used in any condition of the partner’s penis (even when it is not erect).
Availability and price
Due to weak advertising and a large number of shortcomings, female condoms have not gained sufficient popularity among the fair sex. You can purchase the product only in online stores. Female condoms “Femidom” are available in Russia, the average price of which is 150-170 rubles per piece, depending on the region.
Read
Also:
- Vumbuilding - exercises for female intimate muscles
- How to increase the deficiency of female hormones - estrogens?
- Features of using the Nuvaring ring
- Vaginal contraceptive ring: how to use it
- Red brush (Rhodiola rosea) - treatment for female diseases
- Prolapse of female organs, what is it? Causes and symptoms of prolapse of the vaginal walls, treatment methods
The diaphragm is a contraceptive
How does it work?
The diaphragm is a cap with a thin rubber rim. She resembles a flying saucer, and, according to those whom she drove into despair, there is something equally mysterious about her. It must be inserted into the vagina so that it covers the cervix and is held in place by the bones and muscles of the pelvis.
In Australia you can buy three types of diaphragm (flat, annular and arc spiral), the only difference between which is the ease of insertion. The diaphragm is not the most popular method of contraception, because in our fast-paced age no one wants to spend a long time preparing for sex. At Planned Parenthood, your doctor or gynecologist will choose a diaphragm for you. But not for life. If your weight has changed by more than 5 kg, if you have given birth, or if you have had cervical surgery, you need to contact a specialist again. Your doctor will show you how to insert the diaphragm correctly, and you will need to spend some time practicing it.
See also: Choose your own contraceptive method
Some women find it too difficult, but if you get the hang of it, you can insert the diaphragm in just 10 seconds. It makes sense to buy two pieces, one of which to immediately insert, so that you are ready for anything. It is better to wear a diaphragm in your vagina, not in your purse! You need to change the diaphragm once a day, and if you only have one, you need to remove it (but not earlier than 6 hours after the act!), wash and dry it before inserting it again. If there is an odor, you can wash the diaphragm in a solution of one part vinegar to four parts water.
How to use aperture?
The diaphragm must remain inside for at least 6 hours after intercourse, this time is necessary for the sperm to cease to be viable. A few years ago, women were advised to lubricate the rim of the diaphragm with spermicide for greater safety. However, lubricated in this way, it does not hold well and may slip off. Therefore, if you do want to use spermicide, do not apply it to the headband. It is also not necessary to use spermicide before each sexual intercourse; it is enough to do it once after inserting the diaphragm.
Advantages
The diaphragm has no side effects, is cheap and relatively reliable in experienced hands. If it is correctly selected and inserted, then its presence is usually not felt by either partner. Wear it constantly and it will help avoid any surprises.
Flaws
Many women find inserting a diaphragm quite difficult. Others just don't like her. Women who suffer from diseases of the genitourinary system claim that the diaphragm aggravates their disease. But the reason here is not a matter of adaptation. The condition can only worsen if the diaphragm is incorrectly selected and installed. There are cases (although very rare) of an allergic reaction to rubber or spermicide.
Who is it best suited for?
Women whose cervical muscles are sufficiently developed to hold the diaphragm well, as well as those who feel comfortable with it.
Protection against HIV and STI?
It will not protect against HIV, but it will protect against chlamydia and gonorrhea.
Level of risk?
Theoretically, the risk is 4%, but in reality it is significantly higher due to improper use, as with condoms.
Should I visit a doctor?
Necessary. First, your doctor must select a diaphragm for you.
Is it easy to use?
It's difficult at first. But once you get the hang of it, changing your diaphragm every day will become as routine as brushing your teeth.
How much does it cost?
From 40 to 50$. A diaphragm typically lasts two years, but if you only use one all the time, it will last less.
Will he like it? Some men complain that they feel the diaphragm, but most do not feel it.
Tips for a gentleman8
To avoid unpleasant and unexpected incidents, before sexual intercourse, prepare a condom in advance and place it in a visible place that does not have sharp or cutting objects nearby.
The following follows according to the instructions:
- The condom is placed on the erect penis, which is hard as a rock. If your “buddy” is not prepared, there is no need to rush. First, the sexual organ is aroused to a suitable state, and then “protective measures” are applied.
- After opening the package, you should make sure that the condom is facing the correct way.
- When putting it on, pinch the tip of the condom with your thumb and forefinger to release excess air.
- Then the condom is placed on the head of the penis and carefully unfolded along the entire length of the shaft. Difficulty in moving the condom indicates that the product is being put on the wrong way.
During sex, it is useful to lubricate the condom with a special lubricant and check the integrity of the product. After use, the condom is thrown into the trash. It is strictly forbidden to flush rubber in the toilet.
Specifics of the intrauterine device
The intrauterine device can be called a good friend of all faithful wives. There is no need to think about whether you took the pill or not. No hormonal abuse or violence against the female body. Well, wives who are faithful are not at risk of infection at all.
But still, troubles do happen occasionally. It happens that the spiral may not be positioned well, thereby resting against the walls of the uterus, which lengthens and intensifies the menstrual cycle. It happens that the female body is sensitive and this spiral can affect the formation of polyps in the uterus. However, the spiral mechanism has two sides. Well, for starters, the space it occupies could be occupied by a fertilized egg.
See also: Home birth
The best way out is to leave the body with menstruation. There is also a second side to the activities of the Navy, which is rarely mentioned in advertising. Not many people know that the presence of a foreign body causes an inflammatory reaction - in greater or lesser manifestation. Often the body overcomes inflammation in the first stages of its manifestation. But it is also possible that inflammation leads to the need to remove the coil, and in rare cases even undergo a course of treatment. This is not the worst result. If the enemy was revealed, then he is already 50% defeated. It will be worse if the disease cannot be detected and it kills from the inside.
Even if the egg is fertilized, it will fall out, and the body will get used to this, which will soon negatively affect its development process. Such very early miscarriages can occur in the presence of the IUD 12-14 times a year. It is as a result of such events that the body perceives the desired pregnancy as unnecessary. Endometritis also prevents the mucous membrane from developing normally in order to meet the native egg. When inflamed, the endometrium is unable to hold the embryo. Such inflammation can only be detected by undergoing an ultrasound or hysteroscopy, which is a minor operation. If it is not possible to undergo these examinations, then a woman can wait for years for a child, unaware of the disease.
What does a femdom look like?
Many people are probably interested in what this contraceptive looks like... In this regard, it is worth noting that it is a hollow tube made of polyurethane or other polymer material (for example, more and more latex products have been produced recently).
Barrier contraceptives for women are covered with lubricant, their size is universal: diameter 8 cm and length 18 cm.
They differ from male contraceptives of this kind in that they have two rings. One of them is located at the end of the vagina, and is intended to facilitate the insertion of the product and its favorable location, and the second is at the very entrance (this is necessary to protect against the loss of the femdom).
How to choose a condom
Most men don't like to use a condom during sex. They justify this position by the fact that a condom greatly dulls sensations and does not allow you to get maximum pleasure from intimacy. Meanwhile, this is one of the most reliable means of protection against unwanted pregnancy, and the only one – against STDs.
Condoms come in different sizes
Therefore, there is no need to give up condoms, you just need to choose the one that is suitable in thickness, shape and quality. Then you won’t even notice the difference in sensations, but you will be able to completely relax, knowing that your health is safe.
Decide on the one that suits you best. Once you have chosen a successful model, buy only that one in the future. Don't forget that condoms come in different thicknesses. Some people prefer regular ones, others ultra-thin ones - here, again, it all depends on your taste and preferences.
The advantages of femidoms include:
health. Barrier contraceptives are safer for women's health than hormonal ones;
pleasant sensations. Femidoms are made of thin polyurethane, so during sex the sensations of both partners are stronger than when using a regular condom;
no allergies. Allergic reactions to latex, which prevent people from using condoms, are quite common. But femidom is made from polyurethane - it is a more hypoallergenic material.
Possible consequences
However, not everything goes so smoothly. Sometimes the consequences can be anything but fun. One of them is unplanned pregnancy. It is always accompanied by a number of conflicts, quarrels and misunderstandings, which, in fact, can alienate even spouses from each other. After all, a child can become a problem if young people did not want to be parents at all. But still, the most terrible consequence is infection from a partner with sexually transmitted diseases, from which it is impossible to cure.
Such diseases simply “eat” a person from the inside. He is slowly losing strength, gets sick often and fights for health every day. But all this can happen even after a casual connection at a party. No one is immune from this and it is important to always be prepared and then there will be no problems.
To avoid adverse and dangerous consequences, there are methods of contraception (that is, methods that help avoid unplanned pregnancy and the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases).
In fact, there are a lot of them, but we will look at the most commonly used and popular ones.
